Create Today Podcast

This week we’re getting into Chapter 3, The Boss List. This is where things start to shift. If you’ve ever felt like you were this close to leveling up but just couldn’t quite get there, this chapter is for you.

I talk about the moment I realized I wasn’t going to attract a badass partner until I felt like a badass myself. And let’s be real … I wasn’t quite there yet. I had things I was avoiding, things I knew would make me feel better, but I kept putting them off. That’s when I created my Boss List. A list of everything I needed to handle so I could step into the kind of confidence that attracts real love.

This chapter is all about doing the small (and big) things that make you feel your best. Whether it’s handling your finances, making changes to your health, upgrading your environment, or simply crossing off those lingering to-dos, everything you do for you adds up. And the best part? Every small win shifts the way you see yourself, along with the way others see you too.

So if you’ve ever felt like something was off but you couldn’t quite put your finger on it, grab a notebook, start your own Boss List, and let’s start making the changes that actually matter!

Every love story is beautiful, but mine is my favorite. This week, I’m sharing Chapter 2 of Attract the ONE, and this is where the real magic begins. If you’ve ever doubted whether true love is actually possible for you, this chapter might change your mind.

I take you through the moment I stopped waiting for love and started becoming the person I wanted to marry. I share how one wedding toast completely shifted my mindset, how a simple conversation at a dealership turned into something I never saw coming, and how John—someone I had known for years—suddenly saw me in a way he never had before.

This is the story of how I attracted real, lasting love. It wasn’t about luck or timing. It was about shifting my beliefs, letting go of the “type” I thought I needed, and realizing that love doesn’t always show up the way we expect it to.

If you’ve ever wondered why love feels so hard or why the right person hasn’t come along yet, this chapter is for you. Let’s start shifting the way you see love, because your story is only beginning!

This week, we dive into Chapter 1 of “Attract the ONE”, and it’s a big one. After my divorce, I was convinced something was wrong with me. Like I was wired differently. Like I was missing the “relationship chip” everyone else seemed to have. I stayed busy, focused on my kids, but deep down, I was stuck in old beliefs that told me I wasn’t enough, that love just wasn’t in the cards for me.

In this chapter, I talk about the years I spent believing I was damaged goods, the experiences that shaped that belief, and the moment I realized none of it was actually true. I share what it was really like raising my kids alone, the highs and lows, the funny moments, and the heartbreaks. I also take a hard look at the stories we tell ourselves about love and self-worth, and how they shape the relationships we attract.

If you’ve ever wondered why love feels so out of reach or felt frustrated with where you are, this chapter is for you. Grab a notebook, get comfortable, and let’s start breaking down the lies we tell ourselves so you can finally attract the love you deserve.

This week, I’m doing something different. I’m starting a new series reading my book Attract the ONE. You can get a free copy of the printed book (just pay for shipping) on my website, but because so many people prefer to listen to books, I wanted to make the audiobook free! I’ll be releasing one chapter a week, so the entire audiobook will be available for free forever!

This week I read the preface. If you’ve ever felt like love keeps passing you by, if you’ve been stuck in dating cycles that leave you disappointed, or if you’re just about ready to give up on finding something real, I get it.

I went through divorce, bankruptcy, foreclosure, and repo all in one year! Then, I spent years attracting men who didn’t love me, didn’t want what I wanted and weren’t good for me. But everything changed when I stopped “looking” for love and started working on myself. In this episode, I share some of the shifts I made, the beliefs I realized I needed to release, and how I finally attracted the kind of love I always wanted (but never thought was possible).

If you’re tired of settling, maybe it’s time to start believing that real love is possible. Real love with a partner who truly sees you, values you, and cherishes you is not only possible, but it can be true for YOU!

Grab a notebook, tune in, and let’s do this together!

Thank you for listening! God bless you!

In this emotional episode, I sit down with my Aunt Sherry to hear her incredible journey from a childhood marked by uncertainty, adoption, and resilience, to a life filled with love, family, and healing.

Sherry was adopted in 1960 by my grandparents, but her story starts long before that. She shares raw, heartfelt memories of growing up in a small trailer, the painful separation from her sister, and the moment she realized what “adoption” really meant. Through it all, she found strength in the family who chose her, the bonds she refused to let go of, and the deep, lasting love of a mother she once thought had left her behind.

Aunt Sherry’s story is an immaculate example of the resilience of the human heart, the way we carry our past with us, and how love can transcend even the hardest moments. It’s about what it means to belong.

Bring tissues, because we laughed and we cried over these stories. Listen now and let me know what resonates with you!

This week, I had the real pleasure of sitting down for a part 2 with relationship coach Merianne Drew!

In this episode, we answer your biggest questions about dating, marriage, emotional connection, and what it really means to love someone (and yourself).

We talk about the good, the messy, and the often overlooked parts of relationships. How do you recognize if someone is truly available for a relationship? Can dating apps help or hurt? And what’s the role of emotional regulation in handling conflict? Merianne breaks it all down with her insight.

This isn’t focused on finding “the one,” but rather learning to grow, to be honest about your needs, and to approach love from a place of connection instead of fear. If you’ve ever wondered what it takes to create a lasting, fulfilling relationship, you won’t want to miss this one!